Daddy and I had our first date four years ago today. It just keeps getting better and better. The love gets deeper and deeper. I am the luckiest little girl in the whole world. I love you Daddy!!!! <3 <3 <3
Daddy and I were tired last night when we went to bed. But Daddy spoils me. He licked my pussy until I came hard and then cuddled up to me to go to sleep. He said he wanted me to suck him off in the morning. My pussy was feeling very needy and could feel his cock getting harder up against my bum. I reached back to wrap my hand around his cock. One thing led to another until his cum filled my pussy. So hot!
Daddy told me a story this morning about my big brother, Sam, babysitting me while he went on a business trip. Daddy told me that I had to listen to Sam and do everything he told me. Sam and I have lots of fun when Daddy is out of town.
Well I wasn’t looking for a Daddy but then my Daddy found me on okcupid. But some other littles have some great advice that I will share.
My suggestion for finding a Daddy or a Little is to first do some research on the lifestyle and make sure it’s for you. Then, proceed with extreme caution. There are a lot of predatory people out there and it’s VITAL that you do things smart and safe. My suggestion would be to become active on Fetlife (which if you’re of age, shouldn’t be a problem) Then join some local Kink groups and see if you have DD/lg group in your area (or in the closest major city). THEN Start becoming active on the message threads. Read what some of your locals write, respond, make friends, and DEFINATELY talk to the group leaders about being new and where to start in your community.
Then, and ONLY then, should you be going to any events in your community. Best place to start is a “social” (don’t go to a play party for your first event… might be too much) AND make sure it’s in a public place… (DUH). Once you’ve gone to a couple community events and made some friends… finding someone to play with or become partners with is really very easy.
Don’t rush yourself. Don’t be desperate. Be willing to wait in order to find the RIGHT person without going through pain and loss. It’s worth it to take your time, I promise you.
Best of luck and BE SAFE!
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1. Daddy found me on okcupid. I had given up looking when he sent me an award for being delicious or something like that. I couldn’t ignore it. Thank goodness.
Yep. I’m super-y familiar with that edgy/wanty/needy feeling, and I have to be honest, I am very spoiled with attention and affection too. :)
The answer to your question is tricky. My ‘go to’ activity is usually walking, yoga, or exercise of some sort. It helps because it’s a personal goal to do more of that sort of thing AND it is the best way (apart from sexiness) that I can think of to burn off energy and steam.
Sometimes, however, I start to wallow in that saddy/wanty feeling and it’s difficult for me to get out of the glum. I’ve found that sadness and loneliness sort of feeds off of itself and if I pay attention to it it gets bigger and bigger and bigger until I’m desperately texting Daddy dramatically and begging for attention in the wrong way — even acting out to get the punishment sort of attention (which is better than no attention at all, right??). That’s obviously not what I want to happen.
So, I try my best to not feed my attention-starved ego. I work on ignoring the lonely. After all, if I don’t pay attention to it it can’t survive. Sometimes this works and I can occupy myself with exercise or cleaning or coloring or tumblr or writing Daddy love letters, and sometimes I wallow. However, I’ve noticed that the more I try to pick the healthy path, the more successful I am.
Whatever you do, don’t beat yourself up for wallowing (and certainly don’t drag your Daddy through it). We all have bad points in our lives and sometimes the dark, the crappy weather and the loneliness all build up and become something that is hard to tackle.
Just know your Daddy will be proud if you can beat the lonely and do something to make yourself proud: exercise, write, color, clean, re-write your resume, catch up on homework, knit yourself some mittens, etc.
This is from a couple years ago but I reference it often. Still learning.
I love that! Thank you. We are far from perfect but I am incredibly lucky that Daddy found me. I do think that I have the BEST Daddy in the whole world. Good luck finding your best Daddy!!
I was missing Daddy so I texted him and asked him to send me some love. Just a few sentences and everything is okay in the world again. Until the next time I am feeling like an anxious little girl again anyway.